Updated: Dec 16, 2020
We all have or had them; and they're all not Sexual.
Soul Ties are made up of three parts: Mind: Emotional Connection | Body: Sexual Connection | Soul: Spiritual Connection
Everybody have flaws... that's normal but what's not normal is having flaws originate outside of yourself. Adopting the flaws of someone that your connected to SCREAMS "this is a bad connection".
Identity and Purpose plays a part in the Soul Ties you create. Below are the Top 3 Healthy and Unhealthy Friendship/Relationship Soul Ties that I believe you should be aware of.
Top 3 Healthy
Healthy Soul Ties are there to push, encourage and motivate you to be the best you can be. These relationships will help you identify your flaws so that you can grow effectively in the person you are created to be.
They Excite You: We are wired to be social beings who loves making connections within these connections we feel a sense of excitement to learn this new person and all they are.
They Lift You Up: These relationships encourage, cheer you on, and seek only to protect and elevate you.
They Make You Want to be MORE: Their presence alone motivates you and pushes you to improve in life.
Top 3 Unhealthy
Unhealthy Soul Ties is like an emotional drug. These relationships are controlling, manipulative, dominating, and/or frustrating to your core. Once affected it's hard to shake free from.
They Inhabit Your Decisions: When you feel their presence putting pressure on your decisions it's time to pull back. This connection takes from your personal power and drains your Identity.
You Become the Worst of Them: Everybody have flaws... that's normal but what's not normal is having flaws originate outside of yourself. Adopting the flaws of someone that your connected to SCREAMS "this is a bad connection".
You Just Can't Let Them Go: You realize that their connection is negatively effecting you but somehow you just can't stay away from their presence.
Take sometime and Identify which set of Soul Ties you are dealing with. If you are leaning more on the Unhealthy side then you my friend have some "breaking" to do.